Kim Menzies from 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days has been embarrassing herself every week by begging for Usman Umar AKA Sojaboy’s “yammy,” when he was intimate with his ex-wife Lisa “Baby Girl” Hamme on their first night together. 50-year-old Kim claimed she’s “1000 times better than her” while talking about Usman being hesitant to get into a relationship with her due to his terrible experience with older American lady, Lisa. However, Kim was sure she’d prove she could go from being a “potential” girlfriend to his “woman” while spending two weeks with Usman. However, it seems that Kim has spoiled her chances by pushing Usman into having sex, and she is being accused of predatory behavior.
While Usman wanted to take things slow, Kim booked a honeymoon suite for herself. After she gifted him a PlayStation 5 and a MacBook Pro, she hoped that the Nigerian rapper would join her there. However, Usman left the room without even giving Kim a kiss. Finally, in episode 8 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Usman agreed to move into Kim’s room. She left no stone unturned in terms of seduction techniques by donning pink lingerie and pouring glasses of champagne. However, Usman didn’t sleep with her, and Kim was left seething with rage. In fact, Kim from B90 used her son Jamal as a means to manipulate Usman into making love to her. Kim’s desperation is being severely criticized on social media, and of course, Lisa has joined fans in making fun of the San Diego woman.
In a recent comment made on 90 Day Fiancé blogger @mommysaysbadwordslive’s page, regarding a meme about Usman, Lisa clapped back at Kim. “Babygirl” said, “And don’t compare her to me 😂She’s not in my league. I got the yam and didn’t have to buy a ps5 and a laptop 😂” On the show, Usman explained that in his culture, “all this is not allowed,” which includes being in Kim’s room or holding her hand “without engagement ring.” When asked by producers, “weren’t you intimate with your ex-wife the first night you met?” Usman reminded them that when 90DF star Lisa arrived in Nigeria, she was his fiancee. He added, “The reason why me and my ex-wife were intimate so quickly because we were already propose before she even arrive.”
As per Usman, he and Lisa were “in it already,” whereas he and Kimberly are not “in a relationship” because that’s what they’re still “working on.” During Lisa’s first-ever interview with 90 Day Fiancé, she had explained how she’d met upcoming singer Usman, whom she had been together with for two years. Lisa was a divorced single mom to a teenage girl who met Usman on Facebook when he was 28 and she was 50. Lisa didn’t trust Usman in the beginning, after he sent her a request on Messenger, but he called her immediately to prove his identity as “Nigerians are known for scamming.” He shocked her by saying “I love you” and within a month, Usman and Lisa were having “sensual” video chats during which he had “most definitely” seen her naked.
Nine months into the relationship, Usman had video-called Lisa to ask her, “baby love, will you marry me?” So, Lisa had flown thousands of miles with an intention to have “unprotected sex” with Usman and marry him. It could be that since Usman was fully invested in his relationship with Lisa, which crashed and burned, he’s thinking twice before even making Kim his girlfriend. In fact, Usman is being respectful of Kim, even though she’s been constantly putting pressure on him. However, there’s still a long way to go until the season finale of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Usman does have feelings for Kim, but it’s unclear if they’ll get intimate. He may give up on her after all of her probing and prodding.
