Brandan DeNuccio and Mary Demasu-ay have come a long way after their stint in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. The Oregon native and the Philippines woman met online a few years ago. They had both been through tough breakups before, so they decided to compensate for that by building an obsessive relationship with each other. Initially, Brandan and Mary always stayed connected on video calls. They spent every moment with each other, even at the doctor’s appointment or sleeping. However, things changed after Brandan moved to the Philippines. The move inspired him and Mary to trust each other more.

Brandan and Mary faced many challenges in the initial phase of their relationship. Mary felt that Brandan would cheat on her, so she tried to control him. She even argued with him about involuntarily sitting beside a woman on the plane. At the same time, Brandan felt uneasy about Mary’s past and her friendship with other men. He felt betrayed that Mary hid her male friendships from him. Ultimately, Brandan and Mary did overcome their issues. They got pregnant and tied the knot in the finale, kickstarting their married lives in the Philippines.

Brandan Accepts Mary Despite All Her Flaws

Brandan Thinks Mary Brings Peace Into His Life

Many 90 Day Fiancé viewers speculated that Brandan and Mary wouldn’t last forever. However, the couple proved everyone wrong by maintaining a stable relationship after their marriage. Brandan and Mary are very much in love nowadays. They care for and accept each other. In 2024, Mary posted a cuddly photo with her American husband. She thanked him for accepting her despite all her flaws. She also looked happy in the picture. The Philippine reality star seemed confident in her marriage. Brandan also reciprocated with a like. He confirmed he loved her even with all her issues.

It seems Brandan isn’t the only one who accepts his wife. Mary has also begun trusting him more and no longer controls every aspect of his life. Most of Brandan’s social media posts are about Mary, their child, and their family. He rarely posts solo content, which suggests that he wants his wife to know that he isn’t looking for attention or trying to impress other ladies. Brandan also seems more down to earth after marriage. He confidently mentions Mary in his bio and states she’s his “peace and happiness.”

Brandan Has Embraced Fatherhood

Brandan Has Become A Hands-On Dad

Besides becoming a good husband, Brandan has also embraced fatherhood. He enjoys sharing pictures and videos with his baby girl, Midnight, whom he loves very much. In May, he posted a clip where he took her to the local spot to get the vaccination. The video showed Brandan carrying her, getting her weighed, and assisting her as people at the clinic did their thing.

Brandan Does Physical Labour In The Philippines

Brandan Doesn’t Mind Working In Harsh Weather Conditions

Brandan has also become more hardworking after marriage. Some of his latest videos show him doing physical labor, doing what’s important to keep his family happy. Mary shared a clip in May that showed Brandan using an axe-like tool to cut bamboo. She said, “me, Brandan, Lola, and the boys are going to make a fence.” The video showed Brandan doing the hard work, like cleaning and cutting the bamboo. In the video, Mary admitted it was too hot in the Philippines. However, Brandan looked determined and didn’t let the temperature deter him from working.

Brandan’s demeanor in the clip contrasts with his behavior in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. When fans first saw him, he seemed like an easygoing guy who wasn’t serious about marriage. Although he left his country to settle in the Philippines, it didn’t look like he had the skills to provide for his family. He also spent a lot of time playing video games.

Brandan Cooks For His Family

Mary Appreciates Brandan’s Culinary Skills

Brandan has also begun cooking for his family. In March, he posted a clip of himself making a potato dish. The video showed him cutting the potatoes like a chef and cooking them in a pot. He later added eggs into the mix, making it a delicious breakfast. The video concluded with Mary reviewing Brandan’s cooking. She said, “the moment of truth, let’s try Brandan’s food.” Mary enjoyed her husband’s creation and seemed satisfied. She gave it a thumbs up. Brandan also looked pleased that his wife liked his cooking skills.

Brandan Has Achieved A Post-Marriage Glow-Up

Brandan & Mary Look Fit In Their Latest Pictures

Brandan and Mary faced too many challenges in their relationship. Their inability to trust each other impacted their mood and physical appearance. Fortunately, the last few months of a cozy marriage have fixed many of their issues. They aren’t just happy but look fit. Brandan and Mary have also distanced themselves from reality TV. They no longer mention 90 Day Fiancé in their bio or refer to their stint on the network. It seems like the two are much more content away from criticism from viewers.

Brandan has achieved a glow-up after marriage. He was once very sad and depressed because of his financial condition and relationship issues with Mary. However, a healthy marriage has helped Brandan’s mindset. It has allowed him to return to being the youthful man he should be in his early 20s. In January, Mary shared a sun-kissed photo of her handsome husband. He smiled in the picture and seemed content with his married life. Mary used the smiling face with a heart-eye emoji to show she felt just as happy after marrying him in 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.

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